It is not a personal choice you are told to shun someone for some unknown " sin" and if you do know some details like with a family member you also recognize the lack of being even handed that goes along with it
One of the GB illustrated it as someone freezing---slap him awake, force him to get well. The real way to save him is to surround him with warmth
Another was likened to a traitor to your country-- regardless your politics some are Patriots t ok you standing up to injustice